so i had my first "offical exam" at the doctor yesturday and she said in an extremely suprised tone of voice "wow! good for you, you are 2 cm dilated and 60% effaced...don't think you're going to make it to your due date little lady!" immediately i thought "good for me? really?" do you know how much i have left to do that i have been putting off due to the advice of others repeatedly saying "oh, girls are always late." "it's your first, it will be a while" so all my postponing until the first few weeks of February is shifting into high gear. then again, there can always be this hype that lingers...2 cm for two more weeks...you just never know.